Human Psychology is very diverse
It is difficult to understand it well and then behave likewise. In life, so many times a person misjudges a clear fact or idea and gives a wrong shape. This kind of action always takes place in our lives, daily. A person's mind misread an issue or an idea. Notwithstanding, the actual position, is quite different from it. This is because, the person first set his mind to that issue, as it takes place, the person announces his decision. Which is wrong and creates problems.
Islam, in this regard, forbids a person, that he should not be ill-omened, as it is also a universal phenomenon that what you are thinking, same things will happen to you. I think all of us bears this kind of experience so many times. Another thing that irritates us is that we consider why I am facing so hard and hot difficulties in my life. It is the outcome of our deeds that we committed early in our life and misunderstand the issues.
Quite often, the misunderstanding takes place between the couple, the result is always a happy compromise or a bad separation.
This is the routine happening in our society. Sometimes both parties go for their supremacy but lost the honor and fall in the blind well.
If the couple agreed upon a compromise and hormones and foresee the difficulties of the future. They will not go for separation. One thing which is common in this regard is the wrong expectation from each other. I have dealt with so many cases in the courts, approximately both parties told lies to each other.
In reality, no one possesses such a position. Then they hold the position of why he or she told lie. Now they are not going for any agreement. They can't change their position and ruin life.
It is apparent their life is damaged, but the lives of their children are more suffering. It is for the parents to do compromise with each other and seek a better solution for their own lives and for the life of their children.
Conclusion:
Both parties make a simple thing complex or you may say make a thing magnifying.
