Abstain from two diseases and live a peaceful life

Love not hate

Hate and pride are two states of mind and the product of various conditions or environments. Almost all people are passed through this state or scenario. Some of them respond negatively and some positively. It is for the person how one behaves.  
Most people when facing a hatred situation, it is natural to behave negatively. It is apparent. So people do as such. But here is what Islam says in this regard. Quite different. The Holy Quran is full of such teachings that abstain yourselves from taking any kind of revenge. Increase your level of forgiveness and mature attitude. Not waste your time in such boring thinking and rude behavior. 
Among other diseases, these two are the most dangerous and fatal. As it ruined the life. A person is not aware of its bad sequences when he comes to know, that it sparkles slow poison in his life. The time at that moment passed. The prisons are full of such people who have not digested the bitterness of the situation and did an act, which is a more bitter and long-lasting effect on the life of and their family. 
How to cure it? 
The person must analyze the scenario and then go to action. Utilitarians are of the view that the actions which bring happiness in one's life, must do it. But should be kept in mind, that small and short-term happiness and long-lasting weeping is not a good thing to carry on. Just look what the result be then, if, I acted upon this postulate. 
These are hidden mental diseases everyone knows. If a person intentionally commits and he abides by, then see the result. That kind of person not knowing the result, considers himself right, but actually, he forgets his goal to achieve, He at that moment indulges in other things which are unnecessary for him. His mind reads opposite things. 

The summary of the above statement is:-

  • The history of the world and the surrounding of his show that people in this category are failed in life. No, one gives him any priority and respect.
  • Such person always passes his life in isolation as all person not giving him any lift. 
  • The mind of such a person thinks negatively. 
  • He always criticizes others for pity things. He never commits any wrong, it is his mind's reading.
This is a constant state of mind, which is full of tension and depression.  

Advice for the person affected by Hate and Pride

No one gets satisfaction and relief from these bad characters yet. All the people suffering from this destroyed their life. A matter of common observation. Make other company, as this one is fatal for you. Adopt more professions and earn more, leaving the person with whom you are indulging and gaining nothing.