We the human being always need respect and honor in all conditions.
It is the thirst that only satisfies when someone else honors our ideas. In that condition we the human being bow and show respect in turn.
Salam
Islam, the religion of peace and respect greatly emphasizes this virtue that we should respect others. The word "Salam" greetings are very much popular and meaningful in Muslims but it needs to understand well. As it carries the whole peace of mind. When a person says it to others, it means that he pours down on him the graces and blessings of Allah. On many occasions, Allah has said that the love expressed among you is one of the most important blessings on you.
Peace Of Mind
Yes, it is the most important and valuable favor and grace. So, peace of mind is dwelling in love and affinity. The most common saying is "love begets love". It is a great mistake or we may say a blunder that in our societies the elder always uses harsh words to his family members and in turn expect that they will respect me. I think it is a wrong concept or phantasy people will bow and will accept our ideas blindly. It is the most important duty of the elder person of the family to use soft, sober, and decent words for his family members. Because it will boost the morale of the youngers.
The younger the offspring will discuss their even personal matters with the parents. The best advantage of this discussion will be that they will not become the prey of some malevolent. The parents do a lot for their offspring, the more important is to create an atmosphere where the children have given a chance to explore and share ones his/ her views openly. If it is then we can say that the parents are more kind than necessary. I want it that it should be our attitude and to make it our habit.
This kind of habit is not difficult to adopt, very easy, as on whom we are going to punish, did any mistake or blunder, but we are also committing sins and blunders.
Compromise
What punishment do we want to execute on him, for that we are ready to bear? No, we do not want to be passed as such disgraceful from which we are passing others. It is humanity, which we consider fit for ourselves, we must think it for others.
Human nature appeal to love and want pleasure and peace, struggle hard to gain peace and dwell peacefully. No interruption wants in his life. We know, that it is his right, no one can deprive him of this right. For this purpose, he sometimes accepts unwillingly compromise. But when he sees the result of the said compromise, the joy, and happiness. This lesson of love begets love we forgot. It brings happiness and progress forever. The schools, colleges, and universities syllabus should arrange as such that there are kindness and respect for others. Once, the children got degrees, they altogether forgot their parents.
My best hobby is reading books, I did it and find the clues of a peaceful life. Now I am going to share it with all those who want a peaceful mind and a progressive life. What is that?
Kinder Than Necessary
Very simple, that is to the acknowledgment of a clear and transparent fact, I must let other people learn and live accordingly. What was correct in my life or past, not necessarily be correct now. As and when we accept this phenomenon we will get a peaceful mind and above all, the self-Aggrandizement created tension will go off. I have a lot of tensions, worries, and complex types of moods. Always in hurry and considering that only I am right. What is correct and suitable in my opinion is true. A different opinion and idea are false. But later, I recognized, that other people were more correct than I. When I accepted this fact, all tension, worries, and anxiety finished. Thanks to Allah Al-Mighty.
So, it is now essential for us that we must be kinder than necessary not only for others but for ourselves too. And this is more needed and wanted, if, want to live long.
