personal development is the process with the help of which one may overcome obstacles and achieve the goals he set for his future life.
It is an inward feeling that I should promote the characters who are highly appreciated and have a place in society.
there are certain qualities and values and abilities that need to address properly by doing so personal development's dream takes the shape of truth. everyone wants to get his potential and maturity and show confidence. for this purpose, one should learn the skill and method of how to get it.
Personal development is a long strive and lasts to learn new skills and to develop potential. In this respect, certain factors need to address properly.
It is a continuous process as if you with an enthusiastic approach and with consciously work to improve your self this effort and struggle is a process of self-development.
Compete yourself.
I think the most important thing is that you are competing with yourself not with others in terms of positive thinking not wasting time and sticking to your determination. There are certain important reasons which are required to be properly addressed and never go out of sight. In this respect, I would like to say that if I am fighting with someone or angry over a person all this malice is running in my mind, but I couldn't damage anything. It is possible that he may enjoy sunbath on the beach or sleeping or enjoying matrimonial life. But here I am in a state of tension, spoiling my own life. So compete with yourself, not with others.
Mental Growth.
This is the most important thing as I have come to know that if you make it a paradise you will be happy and will enjoy life and will let other people also be happy and prosperous. Otherwise, your mind read all those things which are buried in the past and damaged and finished but here in your mind it is alive. So great work is required to scratch all those things which bother and teased you, above all spoil your life. Void all those things and events which hurt your mind and retard positive thinking. Always strive and work on it so that in my mind there should be positive thoughts. As in one time, we think of one thing, double thinking or thoughts do not exist at one time. Delete and scratch negative thoughts and wishes for others. Be well-wishers of yourself. Always discuss some matters with yourself as to which I am concerned is so valuable or not. As I am giving so much importance to it. Think about it.
Social Growth.
There are two extremes both are dangerous for one's personal development. You are aware of some people who spent all their valuable time with friends and by doing so not knowing that I am losing my aim, which I have set for the future. the other is abstaining from social gatherings, he or she has some kind of phobia. He never goes near the people and in this way, his social aspect of life remains tied and unhealthy. In long run, he does nothing but criticizes everyone. For personal development, social growth is very essential and useful. Without this one there is a lack of self-confidence and a great setback to self-esteem. You should not be afraid of social gatherings but create a group of like-minded that at a time of emergency or difficulty they should help you.
Emotional Growth.
Living in the community it is then important to respect the ideas of others too. To some extent, it is necessary to abstain from pride and prejudice, and unnecessary angriness. As if you show angriness on each thing, it is apparent that you wasting your energy, personality, and time. Therefore there should be a balance in dealing with the people at large. You must show tenderness and kindness in your behavior while living a peaceful life. Emotional growth comes when you show maturity, otherwise, no one will respect you and in that case, you will always be in a state of war. A nation when entering into war, it damages all its assets, and an individual can't survive in such a condition. Such people then start drinking and became easy prey to drugs.
All these people who are addicted become because of an imbalance in emotional conditions. Some of them are the inhabitant of prisons. They don't control their emotions and did a crime. Now it is your duty to balance it with a clear postulate that I should be a sober, decent and mature person. This attitude and efforts are leading toward personal development. Successful people keep their emotions in control and balance, they never became astray.
Physical Growth.
From the beginning, I like reading and watching TV. My Great Father always insists that you must also do exercise so that a healthy mind exists in a healthy physique. Yes of course this is the most important thing that a person enjoys the best of health. If you become a millionaire but suffer from a fatal disease, what you will do with that. So you must do exercise daily, with this the best health will carry your load and you will work more accurately, and professionally and earn more and more.
Health is Wealth keeping physical exercise, running, and walking boost the body and soul fit and smart. This is wealth that you are completely fit and far from hospitals and doctors. This blessing is one of the great virtue with the help of you promoting the development of your personality. A straight way of personal development.
There are a number of areas identifying them that lead to personal development. So, you should focus on the areas and habits which bring happiness and change in your life. personal development is not a difficult task. It is just learning new skills and replacing bad ones with a good ones. for example lethargic mood and voiding physical work with sleeping or doing nothing with exercise and with reading.
Spiritual Growth.
This growth is the master of all growth, when you start to improve it, a new change will occur and take place in your life. this comes into your life by following the teaching of religion. No religion teaches you to harm others. All religions impasses on it that you should be kind enough to others, in return they will also render grace and sympathy. Such a person in all his dealing with people always takes great care. He never wants to hurt the feeling of others. So you should also work on it. Such a person is light and pure because he does not rear the burden of hate and malice. by nature he is the friend of humanity.
Do you know what will be the result of This process and struggle?
A simple answer is that you will reach your real potential. Increase your skill, and give color to your aspiration. you need to live a prosperous life, full of happiness and above all a model for others to follow.
You must know your strength and weakness. Once you recognize it, onward you started the development of your personality. As these are the core and essential parts of your life. You will improve your strength and try your best to overcome the weak area or character or traits of your life. for example, backbiting is an ethical, spiritual crime, by recognizing it you will leave it and replace the character of appreciating the good or bad work and will spend all your time in getting the goal that you set for yourself. This struggle not goes in vain but will bring new and changed life and with this personal development comes progress.
Phobia is too an important factor that hinders the personal development of one's personality. First of all work on it and throw it from your mind and go for success.
